Which one will you choose, having regret because doing nothing or having regret after doing something? It’s hard isn’t it? When you doing nothing it because you afraid of it, what if I get hurt, what if it was false, and I’ll regret it for sure. Then the regret after doing things, you regret it because what you thought at first turn to become mistake and you get hurt, disappointed and deceived, and wondering why you done it.

I read a book, the plot was so interesting, it is fantasy, but still contains lot of stuff to think about. The main character was nobody to begin with but he face conflict which made his world turn into something different, then he has to decide something about his life, and it will change him, people around him, his world. He fear it, “what if I was the wrong one here, what if they who was the right one here, what will I do with my life, my family, everything are put on the stake here!” in the story, he did run once but at last he fight his fear and moved forward, determined himself and followed his heart, though it wasn’t easy at all. He was tremble, his body shaken and his feet stepped awkwardly, but still he decided to do something instead of doing nothing or the worse, run away.

Is it so simple? No! People can easily say “face your fear and fight it!” many things will become obstacle especially when you facing the commons sense of society. People concept of mind is always according to the majority point of view named society, if they said like this and that was the right one, what your heart says? As long as we didn’t hurt anybody in its process, as long as this is the right thing in our concept of mind that didn’t harm you and people in the world, why not? To face your fear is the most frightened thing to do but still better to regret something after you do that, because if it turns to be wrong, there is a chance for you to fix it, as long as you yourself give that chance alone.